Ethics can also
be used as a measure of one's personality. Ethics
can be shaped through a variety of ways, including interaction, education,
environment and customs.
Which must be considered in the ethics of good relationships with peers, below or above us both social and age is the principle of mutual respect. With good ethics it can be ascertained that someone will be well received in the daily association
Why is the Ethics of Intercourse to be considered? it is because.
Humans should be required to connect, know and help.
So that our behavior is accepted and liked by anyone who associates with us.
Manners and everyday behavior are our own personal mirrors
The basic things in social ethics are:
Be polite and friendly
Attention to others
Be able to keep the feelings of others
Tolerance and a sense of wanting to help
Being able to control your emotions
Which must be considered in the association is:
Good at placing themselves
It can distinguish how our attitude toward older people, peers, and younger ones. For example:
The elder / elder should respect us.
Peers should be respected
Younger people should be cherished.
In ethics we can do it when:
In school
In interaction / reciprocal relationship with all personal (Principal, Teachers, Administrative / Tu, School Boys, Friends and so forth.
In society
In interaction / reciprocal relationships with community members. Eg in Store with Shopkeeper, at Post Office with its employees, and so on.
At home
In interaction / reciprocal relationship with family members, both parents and relatives.
Some examples of social manners:
In speaking
Good ethics in speaking are:
Must stare at the other person.
The sound must be clear.
Use good grammar.
Do not use high tone of voice.
Bias offset the other person.
Trying to please the other person.
Able to create an atmosphere of humor.
Praise the other person.
Able to be a good listener.
In speaking avoid the following things;
Talk about other people's badness
Talk about sensitive stuff
Cut off the conversation
Dominating the conversation
A lot of talking about yourself
In acquaintance
Good ethics in the introduction of:
Say the name clearly.
Make eye contact.
Handshake warmly, not cold.
Introduce men to women, young to old or in positions.
When sitting down, you should stand for a moment.
Do not do introductions in crowded places
In calling
Good ethics in calling are:
Immediately pick up the ringing phone
Mention your greetings and names.
Be warm
Do not take calls while you eat
When the call is disconnected then the caller must first reconnect
Do not call while calling others
Take control of your emotions when you receive a call
Say clear words, do not murmur
Avoid excessive intimate conversation
At the end of the conversation say your closing greeting as a thank you
In reproof / salute
Good ethics in the visit:
When meeting with a bunch of acquaintances or friends, we should first admonish or salute the oldest woman of the group. After that new to the others,
When rebuking or paying homage, do not keep a hand in a pocket or place it on the waist, as it will give the impression of arrogance and disrespect in the eyes of an educated person.
In the visit
Good ethics in the visit:
Tell first to get certainty whether the host is in place and willing to visit.
Timely to give a good impression on the host and appreciate the time of the host
Sign in, when already welcome. If the door is not locked, do not arbitrarily enter. When the door is locked tap or ring the bell and be patient.
Say greetings. As a homage to the host and a sign that you have come. Likewise at the time of going farewell.
Remember time. Although the host is very friendly and seems happy for your visit.
Do not hold the goods. Before getting permission from the host praise about the goods.
Do not smoke if not already welcome.
Keep your attitude and speech. Never criticize the interior of the house, any mess.
Situation of the house. If the home situation is not good or need the attention of the host, you should immediately leave.
If there are other guests. Introduce yourself to the guests who come first.
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Which must be considered in the ethics of good relationships with peers, below or above us both social and age is the principle of mutual respect. With good ethics it can be ascertained that someone will be well received in the daily association
Why is the Ethics of Intercourse to be considered? it is because.
Humans should be required to connect, know and help.
So that our behavior is accepted and liked by anyone who associates with us.
Manners and everyday behavior are our own personal mirrors
The basic things in social ethics are:
Be polite and friendly
Attention to others
Be able to keep the feelings of others
Tolerance and a sense of wanting to help
Being able to control your emotions
Which must be considered in the association is:
Good at placing themselves
It can distinguish how our attitude toward older people, peers, and younger ones. For example:
The elder / elder should respect us.
Peers should be respected
Younger people should be cherished.
In ethics we can do it when:
In school
In interaction / reciprocal relationship with all personal (Principal, Teachers, Administrative / Tu, School Boys, Friends and so forth.
In society
In interaction / reciprocal relationships with community members. Eg in Store with Shopkeeper, at Post Office with its employees, and so on.
At home
In interaction / reciprocal relationship with family members, both parents and relatives.
Some examples of social manners:
In speaking
Good ethics in speaking are:
Must stare at the other person.
The sound must be clear.
Use good grammar.
Do not use high tone of voice.
Bias offset the other person.
Trying to please the other person.
Able to create an atmosphere of humor.
Praise the other person.
Able to be a good listener.
In speaking avoid the following things;
Talk about other people's badness
Talk about sensitive stuff
Cut off the conversation
Dominating the conversation
A lot of talking about yourself
In acquaintance
Good ethics in the introduction of:
Say the name clearly.
Make eye contact.
Handshake warmly, not cold.
Introduce men to women, young to old or in positions.
When sitting down, you should stand for a moment.
Do not do introductions in crowded places
In calling
Good ethics in calling are:
Immediately pick up the ringing phone
Mention your greetings and names.
Be warm
Do not take calls while you eat
When the call is disconnected then the caller must first reconnect
Do not call while calling others
Take control of your emotions when you receive a call
Say clear words, do not murmur
Avoid excessive intimate conversation
At the end of the conversation say your closing greeting as a thank you
In reproof / salute
Good ethics in the visit:
When meeting with a bunch of acquaintances or friends, we should first admonish or salute the oldest woman of the group. After that new to the others,
When rebuking or paying homage, do not keep a hand in a pocket or place it on the waist, as it will give the impression of arrogance and disrespect in the eyes of an educated person.
In the visit
Good ethics in the visit:
Tell first to get certainty whether the host is in place and willing to visit.
Timely to give a good impression on the host and appreciate the time of the host
Sign in, when already welcome. If the door is not locked, do not arbitrarily enter. When the door is locked tap or ring the bell and be patient.
Say greetings. As a homage to the host and a sign that you have come. Likewise at the time of going farewell.
Remember time. Although the host is very friendly and seems happy for your visit.
Do not hold the goods. Before getting permission from the host praise about the goods.
Do not smoke if not already welcome.
Keep your attitude and speech. Never criticize the interior of the house, any mess.
Situation of the house. If the home situation is not good or need the attention of the host, you should immediately leave.
If there are other guests. Introduce yourself to the guests who come first.
In dressing In
the social ethics of a person's appearance can give a good impression or vice
versa. Attractive appearance and captivating is the capital to be successful in
the association. Attractive and compelling appearance can be obtained by:
Understanding the advantages and disadvantages of yourself Understand that
everyone has advantages and disadvantages Escape from the sense of inferiority
and inferior Be reasonable, not "over or under confidence And in the
ethics of dressing we must recognize the characteristics of our body , Here I
cite some things in ethics berpakain: For a thin person: Avoid tight clothes
Preferred materials smooth and floating Light colors are more advisable Use horizontal
stripe motif For a big stature: Avoid clothing horizontal motives Avoid clothes
ornaments and accessories excessive Color Light skin will be more attractive to
wear dark clothing For women, a mixture of motifs and colors of clothing good
kebaya / blouse, cloth length / skirt and scarf / pasmina adjusted. Dress
patterned combined with matching suit. For men, the color of the shirt
cultivated harmoniously with the color of the suit and tie. Plaid check shirt
is not recommended combined with suit on official occasion. The use of a tie is
adjusted to the color of the shirt rather than the color of the suit. In the
suit and tie shirt is recommended not to insert pins or other objects that make
pockets bulging (glasses, mobile phones etc.). At the use of the base tie must
end on the belt buckle worn. The bow tie is only for certain clothes and
events. For official events wear black shoes and socks tailored to the color of
the coat or black color. Avoid shoes with rubber soles or other colors Good
personality is a person who: Likes many people, appreciated and valued as a fun
person in the association. Considered as a person who deserves trust and
appreciation. Usually a person who loves to do good and away from evil, helps
and gives attention to the interests of others. Who can love others, even if
that person has hurt her, and will forgive others' mistakes. Never run away
from responsibility and consequent in action. ETHICS OF RELIGIOUS ADOLESCENT
adolescents are a very critical period, a time to relinquish dependence on
parents and strive for independence to be accepted and recognized as adults.
The success of adolescents through the transition period is strongly influenced
by biological factors (physical factors), cognitive (intellectual
intelligence), psychological (mental factors), as well as environmental
factors. In everyday life, teens can not be separated from the association with
other teenagers. Teenagers are required to have social skills (social skills)
to be able to adjust to daily life. Such skills include the ability to
communicate, establish relationships with others, listen to opinions /
complaints from others, give / receive feedback, give / accept criticism, act
according to norms and rules apply, and others. The ethical principles of teenage
association Our rights and duties are indeed worthy of our demand, but also not
to abandon our duty as social beings. Orderly and disciplinedAlways order and
discipline in doing every activity. Discipline time let me keteteran.
CourtesySet always maintain good manners, either with peers or parents and
teachers anytime and anywhere. Simplicity Be modest. Honesty Honesty will get
us into the truth. Be honest though it is bitter. JusticeAlways be fair in
associating. No discriminating friends. Love Loving and caring for our friends
to avoid hostility. The atmosphere & place of our associationThis is very
important also for us. Must be observed ya ya. Factors that affect the
association of teenagers As a social creature, individuals are required to be able
to overcome all the problems that arise as a result of interaction with the
social environment and able to present themselves in accordance with the rules
or norms that apply. Likewise with the association in adolescents, there are
several factors that can affect it include: Physical Condition of Emotional
Freedom Social interaction. Knowledge of self-ability Self-mastery of moral
values and agamac. The basic principle of healthy association Healthy
intercourse is a relationship that is not trapped in two extremes of poles,
that is too sensitive (close themselves) or too free. It should be more
emphasized on the positive things, such as to reinforce the existence of self
or to establish brotherhood and add insight. Knowing each other that everyone
needs one another and feels most righteous. As we all know that every human
being will certainly need human beings
We must be aware of this situation so that we do not become
the most selfish human being.
Relationships provide positive values for both
parties. A good relationship is a mutually beneficial relationship. I'm sure
you do not like to be harmed otherwise people do not like us to hurt either.
From that one of the other basic social relationships is symbiotic mutualism.
Do not let us think to harm others Mutual respect and appreciate One word that
I always remember if we want in price and in respect of others, then we must
first be able to appreciate and respect others This respect and respect for
others can be done with many things such as respecting and respecting others'
opinions, respecting and respecting the ways of worshiping others, respecting
and respecting the customs of others, respecting and respecting the ways of
others and others. Not prejudicedAgama regardless of clearly forbid someone to
prejudice others. Because prejudice will only bring trouble and hostility
between us and others. Mutual understanding of differences Human beings are
born with various differences, whether in terms of physical, psychological,
race, ethnicity, culture and others. Every human being has its own uniqueness,
because it is this we must understand the difference. Mutual adviceThe wise man
said a good friend is a friend who always invites to the good road and prevent
the road that is not good. This is also one of the principles of healthy
association. By giving each other advice, we indirectly, establish a healthier
relationship not only for the world, but also for the hereafter. Conclusion of
ethical intercourse of teenagers Conclusion 1: The ethics of association is the
courtesy or manners in association with the situation and circumstances and
does not violate the norms that apply both religious norms, courtesy, customs,
laws and others. A good way to behave in a relationship is how a person is
prioritizing polite behavior when dealing with everyone. The world of
interaction of many kinds. This is influenced by several factors, namely age
factor, occupation, attachment, environment and so on. Positive impact of
association is Able to form a good personality that can be accepted in various
layers so that it can grow and develop into an individual figure who deserves
to emulate. The negative impact of association is to grow into an individual
figure with a deviant personality. Various problems concerning the problem of
teenage association at this time, especially in our country Indonesia, well
known to our well-known eastern culture understand the politeness is also rife
happen.All of those problems For example: Drugs, Free Sex, HIV / AIDS Disease,
Unmarried Pregnancy, Stealing, Clubing, Bad and Ugly Words, Brethren and
Fights, Smoking, Skipping Schools, Impersonation of Western Cultures, etc.
Conclusion 2: The social environment can change the personality of the
Teenagers. Teenagers with a good social environment better personality than
children with a bad social environment. The role of parents, friends, teachers,
and society is needed for adolescents in the form of examples and advice to
deal with the problems of teenagers. The emergence of a sense of care for the
environment and association of teenagers, after doing good deeds and useful.
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